:'(

[sariagray]

So, I knew things were bad. Or, "not good," at any rate. Since the economy tanked, and my mother lost her job due to blindness and my father gave up his business because people would rather buy food than antiques, we've struggled. I haven't been great about helping, either, obviously. I feel guilty for everything I've bought/spent money on. I feel like such an ass. :-/



In any case, what I'm getting at is that I just found out that we got a foreclosure notice. So. Uh. That's a thing that I need to take care of. Hopefully, we can renegotiate the mortgage, and I can give my family money every month, and we can make it through this. But otherwise, we need to pay $78,000. Which is...uh, $77,999 more than I have right now. *Waves dollar bill like a white flag*



This wasn't entirely unexpected, of course, but...it's still a bit of a shock. I hope we can fix this.



(And I also promise not to bore you all with misery!posts...this is the first and last. I just needed to...vent, I guess.)

Comments

[analineblue.livejournal.com]

*hugs again* Don't feel guilty! ;_; I mean, I understand, but... I just don't think you should beat yourself up. And I really, really hope there's a solution out there for this that...doesn't completely suck. ;__;

...I am so eloquent. XD;;;

*HUGS*

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

<3 Thank you. *Hugs* I'm going to try to be optimistic about this. The power of positive thinking and all of that. :-)

[xrai-namere.livejournal.com]

*HUGS*

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

<3 *hugs* Thank you!

[beesandbrews.livejournal.com]

:(

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

Pretty much. :-/

[sassysailorgirl.livejournal.com]

*hugs you tight* Financial woes are something I've loads of experience with the last two years. Just hang in there, pet.

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

<3 Thank you. I think...it will all turn out okay. We have some options, if I'm not mistaken. So, we'll see. *Hugs*

[jedi-harkness.livejournal.com]

*hugs you close* :(

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

*hugs back* Thanks

[lawsontl.livejournal.com]

God, so sorry to hear this. Lots of options, though. Stay focused and positive. You will all find a way out together.

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

Thanks, and you're so right. Even if the worst happens and we do lose the house, all is not lost. :)

[chamilet]

*hugs*

I hope you all find a way to make things work.

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Thanks. :)

[hab318princess.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

I agree, don't feel guilty - it was your money to spend

(on a practical level it's debilitating and you need all your strength to deal with the present rather than feeling guilty about the past)

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

:) <3 Thank you.

[miss-bekahrose.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I understand your troubles and I can definitely understand your guilt. I hope things will start looking up for you and your family, very, very soon.

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

<3 Thank you. *hugs* I think they will. At least, I have to think they will. :)

[jolinarjackson.livejournal.com]

*hugs* And if you need to vent again, that's really not a problem.

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Thank you. <3 Everyone here has been wonderful, and all your support has made me feel loads better about it.

[nancybrown.livejournal.com]

That really blows and I'm sorry to hear it. :( A few people on the next street over lost their homes to foreclosures, and it's so hard. I hope your family finds a way to work something out. *hugs*

[sariagray.livejournal.com]

Thanks *Hugs* I feel a lot better now...and I'm clinging to the idea of being okay in the long run, so...we'll survive, and it could always be worse!